Almost invariably, the #1 sign of a cheating spouse is nothing more than a "gut" feeling. Your spouse may be doing a whole bunch of strange things, but if you don't "feel" that something is going on, you probably don't have anything to worry about. My cheating spouse didn't show many of the signs of a cheating spouse that are so common. It was not until I knew, in my gut, that something was going on that I started recognizing all of the other signs. That isn't the way that it works for everybody, but that's how it worked in my case.
Once I had the feeling, all of the other signs became clear to me. I started paying attention and keeping track of her lies and her mistakes. It didn't take me long to bust her once I started paying attention. But if I had never gotten that "gut" feeling, I may have never suspected her let alone catch her. So, if you've got a funny feeling that something is wrong or something is going on, do yourself a favor and start paying attention. Start looking for the other signs of a cheating spouse. Whatever you do, do not accuse your spouse of anything unless you've got solid proof. Doing so will only make matters worse. Take your time and be thorough. If you are in a hurry, go here: http://www.help-4-yourself.com/cheaters. The worst thing you can do is nothing. You do not have to put up with the lies and the disrespect. But if you do nothing, you deserve what you get.
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